I know you’re curious…you clicked because you can do so in privacy. No one has to know of your curiosity on the taboo topic of the feasting feelings of your heftier counterparts.
I can’t speak for all heavyweights, but I can speak for myself.
Let’s start off and lay it all out on the table, unlike your last favorite presidential candidate or your most recently failed relationship.
I’m not full of surprises.
Or maybe I am.
But I want us to have a good relationship.
I’m a pleasantly plump girl. Naturally, I love to eat. But not in the way you’d be quick to assume. I love the social experience, the nearly orgasmic moans rolling across the kitchen as forks penetrate mouths and culinary delights spread across palettes.
I’m depressed when I don’t feel hungry only because I just want the world’s flavors to nestle on my taste buds.
I’m a good girl. I’ve got a strong faith. I’m abstinent until I’m hitched.
But I seduce with food.
I just love food. I have no training, no in-the-kitchen-with-grandma-
I’m not scientific. All I know is what taste buds like. I don’t know that aphrodisiacs are proven, but I know for me, moments are aphrodisiacs. For myself.
At the heart of it all, I’m complex, layered (ogres have layers, you know).
I have constantly been told I view the world with different glasses, I see things in ways that most people don’t see them.
I’m in the kitchen at 1:30am during a thunderstorm blaring my favorite Enya song on repeat and kneading pita dough by hand.
By 3am, I’m snoring on the couch with my laptop sliding off my lap, and I wake up as Ted Allen enthusiastically dooms the next hopeful chef with those fateful words, “You have been CHOPPED.”
At work, I’m making a mental list of everything I need to get at the store on the way home…just a few produce items.
By the time I leave the store, I’m swearing under my breath as I chastise myself for one more ridiculous food purchase on the credit card, and as I carry four huge bags to the brim with groceries and wait for the bus under the 99 degree Utah sun.
But food is never ridiculous. Food is beautiful. Food is logical. Food is divine.
I don’t own any fancy kitchen utensils. No mixers, no food processors, no nice knives, no silpats.
Most of the time, I don’t even have parchment, and I’m almost always out of aluminum foil.
Just me, some steak knives left by old inhabitants of my rental home I share with three other girls, some tomato stained cutting boards, and music.
Oh, that’s when the magic happens.
The cursing comes to a stop when I lay my debtful buys out on the 70’s counter. Our kitchen is as hot as the devil’s infant incubator, so I have approximately 37 minutes until all of my food withers and rots. Better get to work.
The magic happens when I flip on my music…Spanish guitar playlist. Golden sun leathering me to a crisp.
I plunge my hands in a bowl of foamy, yeasty water full of fava beans, waiting to be shucked.
Food is about imagination, about making it your own. Be a thesaurus and let the words flow from your mouth and imagination when you’re in the kitchen, even if you’re just unrolling a container of pre-made biscuit dough.
I hope this makes you feel that experiences with food are accessible, personal, possible.
This isn’t a cutesie blog with giveaways and contests.
This is me talking to myself, just like I do in the kitchen.
A hoarding place, a memory, a fiery corner of my brain.